Kelly, I can totally relate to this!! I went through a spell right after college in which I bought everything in black. A friend/co-worker used to tease me almost daily about my "black wardrobe" and would practically dare me to wear color. It got to the point I had to force myself to buy color.
I would walk into a store, spy a black top, then stop myself from buying it and look for the same style in a different color. Now, this did result in months of standing in front of my closet thinking, "man, I wish I had this shirt in black!". However, as time went on I was glad I had more color in my wardrobe. After all 95% of the time when you see a woman sporting a "great outfit" it will be filled with color ~ not black. So shake it up and start looking more like Rainbow Brite instead of Elvira!
Oh yeah, about feeling like color accentuates certain pudges you would rather camoflauge - I think this is more about the fabric and the cut of the clothing item than the color. However, if you are still feeling a bit self-conscious start out by adding deep purples, navys, grays, emerald greens and browns. They are still dark colors, but will add a nice change from all of the black.
However, color is still key, so here are some baby steps to adding color to your wardrobe!
Step #1: Start by adding a couple of accessories in a bright color to your black ensembles.
Lorraine Dress - Delia's, $44.50
Plastic Rose Necklace - Urban Outfitters, $18
Quilted Stretch Belt - Buckle, on sale for $6
Nina Fidelma-NL - 6pm.com, $46
Step #2: Add a layer of another bright color and a fun patterned accessory/pair of shoes for a fantastic dose of pizzazz!
Items from above, plus
Lightweight V-Neck Cardigan - Old Navy, $24.50
Chinese Laundry Barca - 6pm.com, $33.35
Step #3: Continue to get use of all of your black accessories, but add them to outfits whose core items are colorful.
Lorraine Dress - Delia's, $44.50
Lightweight V-Neck Cardigan - Old Navy, $24.50
Calvin Klein Grommet Belt - Bluefly, $30
Nina Fidelma-NL - 6pm.com, $46
Step #4: Soon you be using black minimally in your wardrobe and feeling like a knock-out in color!
Lorraine Dress - Delia's, $44.50
Lightweight V-Neck Cardigan - Old Navy, $24.50
Calvin Klein Grommet Belt - Bluefly, $30
Geometric Swirl Platforms - Charlotte Russe, $32.99






















